Most Western men dream of dating a Russian woman, because their women are often considered the epitome of a Russian girl: they’re always beautiful, intelligent and fun-loving, and that’s what makes them so attractive to western men. However, Russian women, like many other cultures and religions, have a very different mindset.
There is one problem with the mentality that Russian women have about men and their love life: it’s wrong. Russian men and women are different, and while they share some traits, the mentality behind those traits is fundamentally wrong. That doesn’t mean that Russian women don’t have any qualities or interests that make them great lovers: just that there are many more things that are important to her than a man who wants to settle down and do everything with them.
The Russian culture
The Russian culture, just like many other cultures, has a very rigid gender divide. Men are expected to be dominant and aggressive, while women are usually passive, quiet and submissive. This divide is carried into most aspects of Russian life. Even if they live in a country where gender equality has been achieved, Russian women still have very specific expectations for how men treat them. Russian women will not tolerate being rejected by a man, and they will not accept a marriage proposal unless it is accepted by her husband.
So, even when a woman isn’t looking for a relationship, she won’t take a proposal as a sign that a man is interested in her, either. The fact that she isn’t actively pursuing a relationship can be a big turn off, because women are more attracted to men who are interested in them rather than simply trying to get their boyfriend/husband/boyfriend to love them back.
This also goes for Russian women who want a traditional career. They’re often extremely hardworking women, and they expect the men in their lives to be like them: highly committed, dedicated, responsible and respectful. So, when a man expresses an interest in her, she might not be able to see his motivations in the same way that men from western cultures might.
In Russian culture, men tend to think that women have more freedom, because they’re less constrained by traditional gender roles. They aren’t constantly being told what to do, and they have more control over their relationships and children.
However, in western culture, a man will generally be expected to do everything for his partner, from cleaning up the house, cooking meals, picking up the kids from school and taking them to activities, washing clothes, cleaning the car and shopping. when she wants it and doing all of the laundry. In Russian culture, she might be expected to do some of these things, but it isn’t often a requirement.
In both of these scenarios, the man is expected to be there for the woman, and the women are expected to be the ones doing the work – to do the ones that the man is doing. If they do any of these things, it becomes obvious that there is an underlying imbalance in power.
This is why it’s so important for a man to see a woman in the right frame of mind. If he feels like she’s in an insecure place, he won’t know if she’s really interested in him. If she’s acting out of self-pity or fear, she’ll be making excuses for not accepting the proposal, and she might also not feel the same way about him afterwards.
There are a lot of women in the US
There are a lot of women in the US who believe that they’re too good for their husbands. It’s normal for them to worry about their husbands. After all, the biggest problem a man has is dealing with his own ego, and trying to please a wife.
On the other hand, a Russian woman’s life is much more relaxed. She may not feel much concern about her husband, and her job, but she will still be concerned about her children.
If she knows she’s not getting her dream husband, Russian women often have a very deep disappointment that she has not been able to live up to her husband’s expectations. Instead of feeling sad, she will feel anger.